Baggage?

When we start a new 'career' (or anything we do); we bring baggage with us. We have acquired some characteristics that may not be highly thought of in our new vocation. A person is a product of what he has done, been taught, and his thoughts - and often a combination of them all.
We say OH, I'm not taking this or that with me. I wont do this or that. We think that because it is a new place, and we are starting new, all things are changed. NO - we have a look, an Arie or some other way we tip our hand that we have brought something with us. I have been out of Law Enforcement for 15 years and I still have total strangers coming up to me and say, "You're a COP aren't you?" I have been surprised and asked them how they knew I had been. Their response has been, "I could tell by the way you stand and walk, there is just an Arie about you"; or "There is just something about you that says COP". The best way I can say it is, you have to acquire a new set of 'EARS' and refresh your 'MIND'. This is to mean, listen with a new mind to what you are hearing from the people who are mentoring you and the information you receive via C.D.'s, D.V.D.'s, telephone calls, and seminars you attend. I heard several times, "Take the cotton out of your ears and put it in your mouth!" Before I started to understand what was really being said. Sure you hear the words, but do you do what they say? So often we find ourselves just 'listening' so we can get a chance to interrupt what is being said so we can say what we want; and we don't hear what the other person is saying. This says to them; (1) - I don't care what your talking about! (2) - just be quiet so I can talk! These two things will not put you in good stead with anyone who is watching, let alone the person you are trying to be with. Your mind has to be changed also - some more than others. You have prejudices that need to be erased and ideas that need to be set differently. I thought I was selling (I hate selling) so I started to vomit all over some people to get them to buy (what a mess). I have run off more family members than I could afford, now I'm a member of the N.F.L. (No Family (or Friends) Left). If you are talking to someone and they give you that look of, "I think I would rather bury my dead dog than listen to this look!" Stop talking and let them go bury their dog. You have just lost that person and you may never get their attention again, so be careful and listen with all your senses. Watch their eyes, hands and other movements; listen to their sounds (Moans, groans, and words). They are talking to you. When you go to a hall or dinner, look around and see what the other people are doing. Are they 'listening'? I have seen audiences that were in a trance, everyone was looking forward, but if the speaker feel over dead it would take several minutes for it to register. I have also seen people taking massive notes, nodding and sometimes applauding. The speaker has their attention and is communicating. Which type do you want to be?

Be a Millionaire (plus) in 7-10 years

If you are in college and trying to get a degree, so you can get a decent job, your chances of getting "near" the top is 1 in 50. Yes, you are in a real 'crap shoot'! My way can make you a Millionaire in 7-10 years, no degree required (you need to get smarter and without lying or cheating).


Have you ever told a Friend about a great movie you saw, or a wonderful restaurant you went to? How about a good mechanic who fixed your car? Were you 'selling' him/her? No, you were the "Messenger"!


The first thing I had to do; change my thinking and develop my mind to adjust to a NEW way of thinking. I had been taught (as a Police Officer) how to get the who, what, where, when, how, and why; but I had been an "authority figure" in that role. Now I was 'developing' a "relationship" role with the people I was to deal with. This is a totally different concept. The whole world took on a totally different look when I started 'reading' (I mean reading books for 'self improvement/development'). I went to my favorite thrift store and bought 22 books at an average of $.57 a piece - ($12.50). I was never a strong reader of this type of material, I was after all 64 years old and "What can you teach and old dog?". I started reading and I could not put the things down, I started with Robert Kiyosaki's book "Rich Dad, Poor Dad" (WOW). What an eye opener this was. I think every young person (19 and up) should read this book. This showed me that I had been lead down a one way path to being a "Worker Bee" and there is VERY little chance to come out ahead in that program (less than 1 in 10,000). You need to understand how to build relationships, not just acquaintances, but real relationships where there is trust and reliability between two parties.


I was never interested in sales (and I still don't like it), but now I don't sell - yes you can make a fortune just talking to people (like you would a friend). The product and the testimonies sell. I am just a messenger. The best part now is that I help people get Healthier and Wealthier. This is one of the most satisfying parts, but not the best part. The best part is being there in their lives and watching them get "turned on and excited" about what they are doing. It is like watching a great play with your best friend and then being able to share the experience with them forever. Wouldn't you like to get into a business like that, where people were happy to see you and be with you.

Reason for being here!

The purpose of this blog is to try and present a view of "how I have changed my life!" My life was not 'set on a path when I was growing up. It just evolved as the days went by (Darwin was not very enlightened). Things don't evolve for the best; they just evolve and if you don't force yourself to change you will go into darkness and scream for eternity!

I was raised as well as my mother could do on her own. It wasn't until I read Robert Kiyosaki's book "Rich Dad, Poor Dad" that I understood the difference between a "worker Bee" and a living thinking human being. I was just part of the working poor. Now, I hope I'm able to make the jump from the J.O.B. (Just Over Broke) to the independent "Residual Income Group".



Yes, I was asked every time I was around someone over 30 "What are you going to do when you grow up?" I would answer with something like, "Be a Pilot, fireman, policeman, or some other GOOD thing. This would bring the "Get a good education and go out, get a good job, and get a good retirement!" This was all good meaningful advice. BUT, I should have been told about the "real" being out there in the working world. You are used, abused and discarded. They will always find someone to "REPLACE you!" You are not indispensable!

I wish I had learned earlier that there was also another way. It was never offered or suggested to me that I could earn money and have a method that would provide me with a continuing supply of money from the Time, effort, and energy, I had never learned that if I spent time, effort, and energy, on a project that it could provide me with money for a long time regardless of what I was doing at the moment.

Now, I will try and show you how YOU CAN CHANGE YOUR LIFE IN A POSITIVE MANNER, and you can do it before you get any older. STOP THINKING SMALL and stupid. Think outside of your present future. Think about the future you have REALLY WANTED! Yes, there is a place where you can be that rich and have that spare time to DO ALL the things you think you want to do now. There will be changes that you will experience (not just think about).

For now just sit back and clear your mind of all the negatives that the world has put there. Visualize yourself where you want to be. close your eyes and "BE" there 'mentally'; you are in charge of what is in YOUR mind. Throw the junk out and see only what you want in your life!